“Not a Mistake” by Jonathan Chibuike Ukah

The man who greeted me yesterday

sighted me from a distance;

when he came close, he apologised.

My father was often on my neck with excuses;

it was my sister he wanted to call

each time he raised his voice and said my name;

my mother said he wanted to have a girl.

At my birth, he arrived with five ribbons rather than three,

having christened me Juliet, my mother named me Julius.

I could not yet understand why I wore my sister’s gowns,

though my mother assured me that cross-dressing was in her genes.

She was wearing Uncle James’ trousers

until the war came and he departed from there.

I comforted my mother that the war was a mistake.

How Uncle James was born was another miracle.

Throughout his mother’s pregnancy,

the scans showed a girl.

Even the feeling in my grandmother’s stomach was female.

My daughter narrated the ordeal of her classmate,

whose mother gave birth to her after a one-night stand.

The little boy had cried from a million to a thousand

after his mother taunted him that he was a mistake.

But my daughter was quick to tell him

that the messiah was also a one-night stand;

whatever time has provoked and blessed

must carry the flourish of a miracle,

though it may be tarnished in life forever.

Sometimes I ask my father if he married my mother,

marriage being the coming together of a man and a woman,

through the conjugation of the body.

That the body recognises this planet,

and wishes to replenish it, makes every child a blessing.

A mistake would not move the world to greatness.

My neighbour’s dog, Silicone, met me yesterday at noon,

jumped on me, wagged his tail and kissed my hand;

My neighbour said I should not worry

because I looked like him in the afternoon.

Silicone’s afternoon disease was legendary.

When the consumers of the vulture meat gather,

The rafters of the gods come on at once.

How much dirt can a man wear on his face?

All children are born to dig the graves of their parents,

and it’s not the duty of the sky to grieve for them as mistakes.

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About the Poet

Jonathan Chibuike Ukah is a Pushcart-nominated poet from the United Kingdom. His work has appeared in Propel Magazine, The Journal of Undiscovered Poets, Atticus Review, Tab, The Silk Literary Magazine, Sublimation, and elsewhere. He has won awards from Literary Shark Magazine, The Hemlock Magazine, and The Pierian.

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Alignment with the UN SDGs

  • SDG 4 (Quality Education): Encourages reflection and critical thinking through literary engagement.
  • SDG 10 (Reduced Inequalities): Highlights diverse life experiences and family dynamics across contexts.

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